The Drama of my Divorce is taking over my Life

Divorice is one of the most stressful events of anyone's life. If it happens to you, don't let the emotional turmoil take over and rule all your decisions. Try and set your emotions aside for a short period and face the reality of your financial situation.

How you deal with your divorce will affect the rest of your life, both emotionally and financially, so don't even try to deal with alone - seek help!

The first step

One of the first steps you should take is to seek good legal advice - especially if you can't come to a mutual agreement on any settlement.

Engage a family law specialist who you feel comfortable with. The legal process involved in divorce can be daunting, particularly when you are emotionally vulnerable, and good advice from a family law specialist can make the path a lot easier.

By law, both your super and that of your ex-partner's is included in any property settlement. This means you can either negotiate to reach a settlement on how to divide the super accounts, or get the Family Court to make a ruling.

Even if you agree to split your super acocunts, the funds don't convert into a cash asset - they are still subject to the super laws and usually preserved until retirement age.

Traditionally, women have less super than men because they take time out of the workforce to care for their family, so it's important to close this gap - whether by splitting super at the time of the divorce settlement, or making higher contributions, salary sacrificing and taking advantage of co-contributions while you're working.

At present, these laws only apply to married couples - property settlements for defactos or same sex couples are still determined udner the Property (Relationships) Act.

Good legal advice is vital. Don't just go to anyone - ask around for some recommendations.

You may feel like you are starting over with your savings and you could even have a mortgage again. But there are things you can do to get yourself back into good financial shape.

Addwealth for Women have developed a number of strategies that can easily help keep you on track to achieving your financial goals.

Why wait to be wealthy? Call Addwealth for Women today on 08 9284 3144 or register online www.addwealthforwomen.com.au

 

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